Advocate, Sex Worker, Survivor
shattering stigma & fighting for victims rights
I bring my lived experience as a survivor and a sex worker into the fight against tech-facilitated abuse, demanding justice for victims and unapologetically championing sexual agency. I advocate for reforms that confront abusers, challenge Big Tech, and affirm that victims’ rights and sex work are not mutually exclusive. Victims rights must be sex-positive.
I am the Chief of Staff at C.A. Goldberg, PLLC, a Brooklyn-based victims rights law firm. In my time at the firm, I’ve spoken with and assisted thousands of victims of sex- and tech-related crimes.
I care as much about fighting for sexual privacy, as I do for sexual agency. I want to eradicate the shame surrounding non-cis-male sexuality. I’m also passionate about creating a safer world for marginalized groups, which means holding those who weaponize tech accountable, and especially Big Tech that facilitates that abuse.
I believe in Section 230 reform, nationwide comprehensive sex education, and the full decriminalization of sex work.
I got into this work because years ago, I became the victim of stalking and image-based sexual abuse at the hands of an ex. It was the most traumatic thing I had ever been through, but it also woke me up to the fire inside me, and completely changed the direction of my life.
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