I am the Chief of Staff at C.A. Goldberg, PLLC, a Brooklyn-based victims rights law firm. In my time at the firm, I’ve spoken with and assisted thousands of victims of sex- and tech-related crimes.

I care as much about fighting for sexual privacy, as I do for sexual agency. I want to eradicate the shame surrounding non-cis-male sexuality. I’m also passionate about creating a safer world for marginalized groups, which means holding those who weaponize tech accountable, and especially Big Tech that facilitates that abuse.

I believe in Section 230 reform, nationwide comprehensive sex education, and the full decriminalization of sex work. And I believe victims’ rights must be sex-positive.

I got into this work because years ago, I became the victim of stalking and revenge porn at the hands of an ex. It was the most traumatic thing I had ever been through, but it also woke me up to the fire inside me, and completely changed the direction of my life.

Read my most recent blog post for C.A. Goldberg, PLLC on victim impact statements, and my article for Refinery 29 on nonmonogamy and healing from trauma.

Photos by Briana Benitez